We often find ourselves disliking people who seem unsupportive or obstructive in our journey through life. These individuals might be close family members, distant relatives, friends, or colleagues. We tend to label them as hindrances or obstacles that make our path more challenging. However, what we often overlook is that every person in our lives is merely an instrument in the hands of a higher power—God. Nobody has the absolute power to like or dislike us, nor do they have the genuine capacity to create obstacles in our journey. Everything unfolds according to God’s will.
God communicates with us through various channels, using people and situations as instruments to convey messages and lessons. These experiences, whether they appear favourable or unfavourable, are opportunities for growth and development. They are not random occurrences but are intricately designed to help us work through our karma, understand our own weaknesses, and evolve spiritually. When we face challenges or negative interactions, they are often God’s way of teaching us patience, compassion, and resilience.
By embracing this understanding, we can shift our perspective from one of victimhood to one of empowerment. Instead of reacting negatively to the people or situations that seem to hinder us, we can view them as essential parts of our spiritual journey. This realization can help us move away from the blame game, where we fault others, events, or even God for our difficulties. We often ask, “Why me?” when faced with adversity, failing to recognize that life is a grand drama where God is the director, and we are actors playing our roles.
Understanding that this world is a stage, and we are all playing our parts according to a divine script, can bring us a profound sense of peace and acceptance. It allows us to see beyond the surface-level interactions and recognize the deeper purpose behind them. This awareness can transform how we perceive and respond to the events and people in our lives. Instead of harboring resentment or confusion, we can cultivate a sense of gratitude and trust in the divine plan. We can learn to respond with love and understanding, knowing that everything happens for our highest good and spiritual growth. This shift in perception is not just about passive acceptance but an active engagement with life, guided by a deeper spiritual understanding and a connection with the divine.